About Me:
You could do a lot worse and odds are that you have. Me? I have been fortunate to have had a few excellent relationships with women who were fun, interesting, attractive, intelligent and sexy. Most importantly, they saw something in me that made them fall in love. Only geographic change, career responsibilities and death ended the relationships. I never tried to hold any of them back even when it meant that we wouldn't be together anymore. The same was true for them.
I'm not perfect but at least I know what my strengths and weaknesses are. I have lived a pretty good life and have good friends and a lot of great experiences to draw on. I've never been arrested; I am not a drug addict, alcoholic or someone who handles his frustration by hitting people. Plus, I actually like women and not just for sex (not that the sex part isn't a lot of fun). I have a lot of female friends who enjoy me for our conversations and friendships.
That's what I'm looking for. I believe strongly that regardless of how hot the fire burns in the beginning, what makes a relationship a good and lasting one is being each other's best friend and tending the fire so it continues to burn well after others burn out.
I am here to find the kind of woman who will put up with my fire analogies and who also wants a relationship that lasts because it's good; not just for lack of something better.
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What I'm doing with my life...:
I came back to the area to look after my parents and help them out as they became less able to do it all themselves. Since my father died, my sister has taken over the more personal care of my mom. Now, I'm looking for a long-term volunteering situation in the area. I've worked with a couple of events and hope to get more actively involved with one of them.
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