About Me:
Looking for a Real, Down to Earth, Up Front Lady! If not...the back button should be used now...I'm sure there a lots of other women that are willing to go on a date with you or even just looking for a hookup! As well I'm sure there are lots of women that NEED a man to be their sugar daddy or for whatever other reason...NOT THIS LADY!
I am not looking to get married off the bat or for a serious relationship but If a serious relationship happens to form...its a plus. I just know we can't go into this thinking that you are gonna find "the one" or that you are "not going to find the one" I have an open mind about it but at the same time I won't waste your time if I don't think there is a future!
I have standards and preferences and if you don't fall within them well i'm sorry but it is what it is! Take it with a grain of salt...don't get butt hurt...I am just saving us both time and effort, if I'm not into you...I'm just not its not my intention to hurt your feelings....just being honest about mine! There is someone out there for you it just isn't me.
If you don't think my standards are realistic...well that's your issue...not mine! I'm not looking to settle! One more thing if you are scared off by my profile then it wasn't meant to be anyhow and your not the guy I want to spend time getting to know! Expecting the best gets you the best...settling for less gets you exactly that!
I'm currently looking for someone to spend time with that is GOOD LOOKING in my opinion, takes care of himself, well groomed (not a fan of facial hair...not completely opposed to it but it has to be well groomed and look good if you have it....also not into lots of hair on other body parts....don't expect you to have an entirely shaved body....i just happen to be more attracted to a well groomed and clean cut man), he should work out and not be overweight and lazy, but also not be a gym rat (if your workout or weights are more important then your woman no need to contact me), can not be full of himself (confidence is good...cocky is not), must be 100% single and over his ex, should have a career and able to pay HIS bills without a struggle...he also needs to enjoy life and appreciate a good down to earth, honest, kind hearted, witty, sarcastic, independent, successful, slightly OCD, neat freak woman.
My guy should be able to carry on an intelligent conversation and hold his own, I prefer a man with an opinion who is not afraid to share it with me, assertive and honest because I'm very honest!!! Sometimes to honest!!! Or a some would say up front or abrasive...so don't get mad if I'm not interested and don't email you back, or email you back and let you know I'm not interested. We all have standards, I know what mine are and you should to.
Another thing if you ask me on a date, then you should have money to pay for the date. I don't mind paying once in awhile but def don't expect me to pay every time or right off the bat...that is not cool! I am not looking for and don't need a guy to pay my bills or pay all the time but I'm not gonna be sugar momma either!
I am not a girly girl, meaning I'm not a high class Diva and I know how to get my hands dirty, but I do like to be treated like a lady (romance should strive and is not dead) and like to get dressed up and go for a nice dinner and good conversation. A walk in the park, across the bridge or on the beach is just as meaningful so lets do what is within your means and something we can have fun doing.
I've been through a lot in life...to include being married before...some say I should write a book but instead of letting things take me down I use them to make me wiser and stronger. I am not perfect and will not claim to be...WE ALL have faults, you just have to find what you are willing to except and what you are not. I DON'T EXPECT PERFECTION from "my guy" but to take responsibility when he screws up and try to fix whatever "it" was! You should have short term and long term goals....set
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