About Me:
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Let me start by saying I hate shallow people. We all have strengths and faults. The point about dating should be to get to know someone and identify and work through those strengths and faults. Someone's strength may compliment another's fault and vice versa. While first impressions can be telling I think we should take time to get to know someone even if they just become a good friend before we write them off as a potential SO. A person's true personality may not initially come out during that first meeting. I also believe dating is like a good book. You start to read it and as you flip through the pages you learn more and more about the characters. As you go from date to date and spend time with a person you learn more and more about them.
----So now more about me-----
You know that person that when they walk into a room and everyone stops what they are doing and looks up ... well, that is me. Oh wait, they do that for anyone that walks into the room.
I am divorced and my two teenagers do not live with me. I have a 19-year-old son and a 17-year-old daughter. I love kids and it seems like they are always at ease with me.
Because I have a full-time job I don’t have a lot of time to get out and date so I want to make each opportunity the best that it can be. If that means we just get together for a quick lunch or a cup of coffee that is what I will want to do.
I would enjoy heading out to the mountains and pitching a tent for the weekend or just heading out to the coast and grabbing a room for the weekend and hang out on the beach. I am also good just vegging out on a couch and watching a movie. I have always enjoyed art and some of the finer things in life. I lived up in Maryland for a couple years and spent many a weekend down in D.C. at the Smithsonian Museums. I have also spent a few years in Germany and experienced some great culture and people while there.
I read once on one of these dating sites that there are 4 kinds of men:
1) The Boy – he is the one who no matter what his age 18 to 80 he is immature.
2) The Confused – he is a man that found the right woman but doesn’t know what he wants even though he knows he is ready to settle down.
3) The Player – he is the man who keeps shopping for women anywhere and everywhere even when he is in a committed relationship.
4) The Real Man – he is the man that values a real relationship and has the smarts and intelligence to keep the good woman he has found and treat her right.
I would like to think of myself as #4. I spent 17 years in a marriage where she was unfaithful, but I still did my best to do right until she asked for the divorce.
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